My first experience in Dixie state university

When i first came to Dixie state university, i felt it wasnt the right place for me because of the perspective red rocks  and desert ground surrounding. It was quite chilly compared to Africa's humid warm weather. As a freshman, coming to Dixie state university, i met an Asian boy who approached me in a nice way introducing himself, but my first thought was him being a nerd because of the stereotypes on Asians. We started talking about our Origins and the female gender. He talked a lot about girls and how many girlfriends he had in the past. I was amazed at the way he talked about girls   because, he didn't look like a person who was interested in girls but just only his books. We became close friends because, we had a lot in common like basketball, social life and the way we saw different things. We are still friends till today, he left for Dubai for the summer and will be coming back during the fall sessions.  I also had another friend who is black and very big in nature. When I saw him I didn't like him natural because he was kind of fat and huge and I inferred that he might be annoying and be a bully. I walked pass him without saying a word. as i was about to bypass him he called me and asked for my name. I thought he was gay and was about to to tell him that my sexuality is heterosexual. We started talking. After a while I later found out he was just being friendly and wanted to be my friend.

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                                                    My first experience in Dixie state university

When i first came to Dixie state university, i felt it wasnt the right place for me because of the perspective red rocks  and desert ground surrounding. It was quite chilly compared to Africa's humid warm weather. As a freshman, coming to Dixie state university, i met an Asian boy who approached me in a nice way introducing himself, but my first thought was him being a nerd because of the stereotypes on Asians. We started talking about our Origins and the female gender. He talked a lot about girls and how many girlfriends he had in the past. I was amazed at the way he talked about girls   because, he didn't look like a person who was interested in girls but just only his books. We became close friends because, we had a lot in common like basketball, social life and the way we saw different things. We are still friends till today, he left for Dubai for the summer and will be coming back during the fall sessions.  I also had another friend who is black and very big in nature. When I saw him I didn't like him natural because he was kind of fat and huge and I inferred that he might be annoying and be a bully. I walked pass him without saying a word. as i was about to bypass him he called me and asked for my name. I thought he was gay and was about to to tell him that my sexuality is heterosexual. We started talking. After a while I later found out he was just being friendly and wanted to be my friend.

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DISCLOSURE: according to Merriam Webster dictionary defined "disclosure "as an act of making something(such as information) known.  First, my name is Justice a masculine soul who is really secretive to everyone including his parents.
    
       "How can self disclosure lead one to a better understanding their authentic self"

The reason why it is called self disclosure is because its an inner secret hidden for a while in the individuals mind until its revealed. after watching Brene Brown's Ted talk show, she talked about what make people to reveal their secret to someone. The connection and relationship between two people leads to trust amongst themselves.  When the soul disclose their inner secret to the other person theres a little relieve from the discloser if the person is trustworthy. I believe the are different secrets according to the situation it is about and choosing the right person to reveal his/her secrets to. Basically disclosure help a person to understand their self better.

Vulnerability:  according to Merriam Webster dictionary defined "vulnerability"as an act of being easily hurt or harmed physically.

          "Why is vulnerability critical to that authenticity"

  The right synonym for vulnerability is accountability.  I will simply say the soul (person) is the subjection to his /her authenticity through different ways. Some people make vulnerability num  by taking alcohol or pills which prevent the person from their authenticity. Its critical because the soul(person) is meant to figure out ways of not being vulnerable to get to their authenticity. for example disclosing secrets to a trust worthy person.

   

This is Justice and my first blog.